"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How bad is the body language for this gal this incel-tier man is trying to mack?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lgbs2004

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my opinion: It's over!
This is a series that follows a range of people on dates who have long term conditions, including: disabilities, developmental disorders, and learning difficulties. This guy is not an incel, he's mentally damaged.
 

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That was painful to watch. She's like a 4 in my book and the dude's a 1. Not happening. He looks like he just crawled out of a cave. If he'd at least put on better clothes and gotten a haircut he could've been a 3-4 and would have had a better chance. However, these days even women who are 4 think they deserve a 7+ guy. The only chance to overcome the looks gap is by having a confident, engaging personality.
She is a 4 and thinks she deserves an 8.
 

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This is a series that follows a range of people on dates who have long term conditions, including: disabilities, developmental disorders, and learning difficulties. This guy is not an incel, he's mentally damaged.
Yes, he's mentally damaged - although he doesn't look all that damaged, and probably would qualify as one of McNamara's morons (Google it) - but that makes him even more of an incel since disabled (mental or physical) women are not incels:


 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There is a reason why we (half-jokingly / half-seriously) talk about XYZ-cels. There are many, many possible conditions that can lead to being a "cel." Some are based on upbringing. Some are based on genetics. Some are based on mental illness. The list goes on and on.
 
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