"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How bad is the body language for this gal this incel-tier man is trying to mack?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lgbs2004

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my opinion: It's over!
This is a series that follows a range of people on dates who have long term conditions, including: disabilities, developmental disorders, and learning difficulties. This guy is not an incel, he's mentally damaged.
 

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That was painful to watch. She's like a 4 in my book and the dude's a 1. Not happening. He looks like he just crawled out of a cave. If he'd at least put on better clothes and gotten a haircut he could've been a 3-4 and would have had a better chance. However, these days even women who are 4 think they deserve a 7+ guy. The only chance to overcome the looks gap is by having a confident, engaging personality.
She is a 4 and thinks she deserves an 8.
 

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This is a series that follows a range of people on dates who have long term conditions, including: disabilities, developmental disorders, and learning difficulties. This guy is not an incel, he's mentally damaged.
Yes, he's mentally damaged - although he doesn't look all that damaged, and probably would qualify as one of McNamara's morons (Google it) - but that makes him even more of an incel since disabled (mental or physical) women are not incels:


 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There is a reason why we (half-jokingly / half-seriously) talk about XYZ-cels. There are many, many possible conditions that can lead to being a "cel." Some are based on upbringing. Some are based on genetics. Some are based on mental illness. The list goes on and on.
 
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