Dhoulmagus
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They'll screw you over with a smile on their face and happily hop on the next victim like nothing happened.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How are most women able to sleep at night
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Because when it comes to men that do not make their taco tingle, they have zero remorse or care. Make their taco drip and it's a whole different story. Money, job, status, all go out the window. You can't think about this too much or you'll get depressed. Jut remove these bıtches from your life.
Ah, yes. This is what they call the "invisible man". This is any man the predatory female has deemed to be of no further use. Although she'll go to extremes pleasing and cultivating a man while in the early stages of introduction or "dating", once his purpose is served she views him as untouchable. He totally ceases to exist in every way. He becomes a nonperson and is fair game for the carrion birds of society aka other women.
In other words, you have served your purpose but once that purpose has been fulfilled, you're like trash to her. What do you do with your trash? Of course, you throw it into the dumpster. Why do you think they "dump" you? Then the trash is shipped off to the landfill for vultures and strays to feed off.
There was a thread today describing what happens when a man has fulfilled a purpose in a woman's life and what happens. Perhaps you can learn from it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210962
In other words, you have served your purpose but once that purpose has been fulfilled, you're like trash to her. What do you do with your trash? Of course, you throw it into the dumpster. Why do you think they "dump" you? Then the trash is shipped off to the landfill for vultures and strays to feed off.
There was a thread today describing what happens when a man has fulfilled a purpose in a woman's life and what happens. Perhaps you can learn from it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210962
Dhoulmagus
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Fat women have low value, women will turn down any guy.skinnyguy said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The fault is yours if you get screwed over, used or whatever else.
You have put your trust in the wrong hands.
Why did you do that in the first place?
Learn from your mistake, move on.
In general you have to choose wisely who you trust.
Men or women, it doesn't matter, if you invest too much in someone who isn't worth, you will get hurt.
You have put your trust in the wrong hands.
Why did you do that in the first place?
Learn from your mistake, move on.
In general you have to choose wisely who you trust.
Men or women, it doesn't matter, if you invest too much in someone who isn't worth, you will get hurt.
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VikingKing
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They are Amoral
PlayHer Man
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Women don't have morals for one (as noobolgy stated above).
Another problem is most modern women have no fear of retribution. They know most men are faggots who will never do them any harm... plus she knows the law is on her side. She knows there are loads of white knights walking the streets 24/7 waiting to defend her honor.
Another problem is most modern women have no fear of retribution. They know most men are faggots who will never do them any harm... plus she knows the law is on her side. She knows there are loads of white knights walking the streets 24/7 waiting to defend her honor.
Spot on.VladPatton said:
Hamster wheel. They find a way to validate everything they do. This is their greatest defence mechanism. You ever heard the bull a cheating girl will say? "He (the partner who got cheated on) never listens to me/treats me/does things with me" etc it's always validated by blaming the guy who's been cheated on. It's never "well I was attracted to this new guy and wanted to fück him".
Nice to see skinnyguy being helpful as ever, if you think women make you butthurt trying men will be much worse! Haha
Nice to see skinnyguy being helpful as ever, if you think women make you butthurt trying men will be much worse! Haha
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Traditionally, women have been so physically dependent on men that they evolved a "me first" attitude. This was probably necessary in an unforgiving environment.
I think both men and women have a natural instinct to favor women, when it comes to protection and provisioning. Normally this instinct is kept in check and pruned back by harsh reality. However, as reality (in our comfortable modern world) becomes less harsh, this instinct grows unrestrained like an uncut vine.
I think both men and women have a natural instinct to favor women, when it comes to protection and provisioning. Normally this instinct is kept in check and pruned back by harsh reality. However, as reality (in our comfortable modern world) becomes less harsh, this instinct grows unrestrained like an uncut vine.
Renegade357
Master Don Juan
I think legalizing prostitution would solve a lot of these problems lol.
It's hard to believe, but the sad truth is, if you're not seducing gorgeous women within minutes of meeting them, then you're not there yet. Some guys are there. I know because I got there, even when I thought I'd be way too old. Keep dieting and keep practicing. When you get it right, you can have married strippers (and other untouchable women) texting you off the hook.
Sometimes if you can just find a common event you get your foot in the door. Any excuse to get her number. Ask her to get you some weed if you have to.
Sometimes if you can just find a common event you get your foot in the door. Any excuse to get her number. Ask her to get you some weed if you have to.
HyperAnalyze
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Not sure what you mean there...bigneil said:
But in my opinion PlayHerMan and Bradd80 are completely right.
Women DO feel that everything they do is justified. But WHY?
Because men ALLOW it to happen. MEN allow WOMEN to step on them and disrespect them. If more men just started standing up for what they believed in and stopped taking BS from women, it might have been a lot different.
Girl flakes on a guy, guy starts getting needy and desperately tries to get her attention, power LOST.
Guy gets angry and throws a fit when a girl wants something her way, power LOST.
Girl breaks up with guy, guy tries to re-establish rapport and attempts to "convince her" she's doing it wrong, power LOST.
The power shift has made its dividends for women. But they have power if YOU LET THEM have it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thank you for not commiserating.mrRuckus said:
Guys, if a girl likes you she will make it painfully obvious. Everyone in the room will know it. If she's your waitress she will put her elbows on the bar and stare into your eyes from 6 inches away. On a date she will say "I'm having fun, are you having fun?" If you're not the man that everyone in the room is envious of, you won't be able to have any woman at your command. If you are such a man, you can snap your fingers and she'll be there.
Take body image. There has been many a day where I felt like the male equivalent of a wallflower- the dowdy one. I felt like I wasn't attractive to *anyone* and whether physical attractiveness would factor into why a girl/her clique would favour another guy over you or not socially, I'd get treated like shvt anyway. The only slither of help I could get on getting a grip on life and social interactions, and how I saw women and realize my true potential (if any), was from my psychiatric advisor, who happened to be a man.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.