Dhoulmagus
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They'll screw you over with a smile on their face and happily hop on the next victim like nothing happened.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Fat women have low value, women will turn down any guy.skinnyguy said:Don't be a hypocrite. If a fat girl approached you, you'd reject her with no remorse.
If you're butthurt about women turning you down, try men.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I think he's talking more about getting screwed over and used rather than initial rejection.skinnyguy said:Don't be a hypocrite. If a fat girl approached you, you'd reject her with no remorse.
If you're butthurt about women turning you down, try men.
Spot on.VladPatton said:Because when it comes to men that do not make their taco tingle, they have zero remorse or care. Make their taco drip and it's a whole different story. Money, job, status, all go out the window. You can't think about this too much or you'll get depressed. Jut remove these bıtches from your life.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
skinnyguy said:Don't be a hypocrite. If a fat girl approached you, you'd reject her with no remorse.
If you're butthurt about women turning you down, try men.[/QUOTE]
in the words of heath ledgers Joker- "very poor choice of words"
Not sure what you mean there...bigneil said:Sometimes if you can just find a common event you get your foot in the door. Any excuse to get her number. Ask her to get you some weed if you have to.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thank you for not commiserating.mrRuckus said:This realization isn't bad. It is freeing.
I agree. Men or women it doesn't matter, if you let someone step on your head it's your fault.the same way male sociopaths are able to sleep despite their lifestyle of screwing people over. People are ****ty, not just women. Lets not loose sight of this.
Take body image. There has been many a day where I felt like the male equivalent of a wallflower- the dowdy one. I felt like I wasn't attractive to *anyone* and whether physical attractiveness would factor into why a girl/her clique would favour another guy over you or not socially, I'd get treated like shvt anyway. The only slither of help I could get on getting a grip on life and social interactions, and how I saw women and realize my true potential (if any), was from my psychiatric advisor, who happened to be a man.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:When it comes to the sexual marketplace they are utterly amoral(about consequences) if not immoral(enjoy committing evil). I believe it is partially due to the biological fact that women are physically weaker and therefore it is hard for them to sympathize or empathize with men.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.