Dhoulmagus
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They'll screw you over with a smile on their face and happily hop on the next victim like nothing happened.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How are most women able to sleep at night
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Because when it comes to men that do not make their taco tingle, they have zero remorse or care. Make their taco drip and it's a whole different story. Money, job, status, all go out the window. You can't think about this too much or you'll get depressed. Jut remove these bıtches from your life.
Ah, yes. This is what they call the "invisible man". This is any man the predatory female has deemed to be of no further use. Although she'll go to extremes pleasing and cultivating a man while in the early stages of introduction or "dating", once his purpose is served she views him as untouchable. He totally ceases to exist in every way. He becomes a nonperson and is fair game for the carrion birds of society aka other women.
In other words, you have served your purpose but once that purpose has been fulfilled, you're like trash to her. What do you do with your trash? Of course, you throw it into the dumpster. Why do you think they "dump" you? Then the trash is shipped off to the landfill for vultures and strays to feed off.
There was a thread today describing what happens when a man has fulfilled a purpose in a woman's life and what happens. Perhaps you can learn from it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210962
In other words, you have served your purpose but once that purpose has been fulfilled, you're like trash to her. What do you do with your trash? Of course, you throw it into the dumpster. Why do you think they "dump" you? Then the trash is shipped off to the landfill for vultures and strays to feed off.
There was a thread today describing what happens when a man has fulfilled a purpose in a woman's life and what happens. Perhaps you can learn from it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210962
Dhoulmagus
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Fat women have low value, women will turn down any guy.skinnyguy said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The fault is yours if you get screwed over, used or whatever else.
You have put your trust in the wrong hands.
Why did you do that in the first place?
Learn from your mistake, move on.
In general you have to choose wisely who you trust.
Men or women, it doesn't matter, if you invest too much in someone who isn't worth, you will get hurt.
You have put your trust in the wrong hands.
Why did you do that in the first place?
Learn from your mistake, move on.
In general you have to choose wisely who you trust.
Men or women, it doesn't matter, if you invest too much in someone who isn't worth, you will get hurt.
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VikingKing
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They are Amoral
PlayHer Man
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Women don't have morals for one (as noobolgy stated above).
Another problem is most modern women have no fear of retribution. They know most men are faggots who will never do them any harm... plus she knows the law is on her side. She knows there are loads of white knights walking the streets 24/7 waiting to defend her honor.
Another problem is most modern women have no fear of retribution. They know most men are faggots who will never do them any harm... plus she knows the law is on her side. She knows there are loads of white knights walking the streets 24/7 waiting to defend her honor.
Spot on.VladPatton said:
Hamster wheel. They find a way to validate everything they do. This is their greatest defence mechanism. You ever heard the bull a cheating girl will say? "He (the partner who got cheated on) never listens to me/treats me/does things with me" etc it's always validated by blaming the guy who's been cheated on. It's never "well I was attracted to this new guy and wanted to fück him".
Nice to see skinnyguy being helpful as ever, if you think women make you butthurt trying men will be much worse! Haha
Nice to see skinnyguy being helpful as ever, if you think women make you butthurt trying men will be much worse! Haha
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Traditionally, women have been so physically dependent on men that they evolved a "me first" attitude. This was probably necessary in an unforgiving environment.
I think both men and women have a natural instinct to favor women, when it comes to protection and provisioning. Normally this instinct is kept in check and pruned back by harsh reality. However, as reality (in our comfortable modern world) becomes less harsh, this instinct grows unrestrained like an uncut vine.
I think both men and women have a natural instinct to favor women, when it comes to protection and provisioning. Normally this instinct is kept in check and pruned back by harsh reality. However, as reality (in our comfortable modern world) becomes less harsh, this instinct grows unrestrained like an uncut vine.
Renegade357
Master Don Juan
I think legalizing prostitution would solve a lot of these problems lol.
It's hard to believe, but the sad truth is, if you're not seducing gorgeous women within minutes of meeting them, then you're not there yet. Some guys are there. I know because I got there, even when I thought I'd be way too old. Keep dieting and keep practicing. When you get it right, you can have married strippers (and other untouchable women) texting you off the hook.
Sometimes if you can just find a common event you get your foot in the door. Any excuse to get her number. Ask her to get you some weed if you have to.
Sometimes if you can just find a common event you get your foot in the door. Any excuse to get her number. Ask her to get you some weed if you have to.
HyperAnalyze
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Not sure what you mean there...bigneil said:
But in my opinion PlayHerMan and Bradd80 are completely right.
Women DO feel that everything they do is justified. But WHY?
Because men ALLOW it to happen. MEN allow WOMEN to step on them and disrespect them. If more men just started standing up for what they believed in and stopped taking BS from women, it might have been a lot different.
Girl flakes on a guy, guy starts getting needy and desperately tries to get her attention, power LOST.
Guy gets angry and throws a fit when a girl wants something her way, power LOST.
Girl breaks up with guy, guy tries to re-establish rapport and attempts to "convince her" she's doing it wrong, power LOST.
The power shift has made its dividends for women. But they have power if YOU LET THEM have it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Thank you for not commiserating.mrRuckus said:
Guys, if a girl likes you she will make it painfully obvious. Everyone in the room will know it. If she's your waitress she will put her elbows on the bar and stare into your eyes from 6 inches away. On a date she will say "I'm having fun, are you having fun?" If you're not the man that everyone in the room is envious of, you won't be able to have any woman at your command. If you are such a man, you can snap your fingers and she'll be there.
Take body image. There has been many a day where I felt like the male equivalent of a wallflower- the dowdy one. I felt like I wasn't attractive to *anyone* and whether physical attractiveness would factor into why a girl/her clique would favour another guy over you or not socially, I'd get treated like shvt anyway. The only slither of help I could get on getting a grip on life and social interactions, and how I saw women and realize my true potential (if any), was from my psychiatric advisor, who happened to be a man.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.