all the girls i have initiated the contact they either never replied, did reply then eventually stop replying, or got a number and almost set up a date but not fall through, yet i just have had 2 dates with 2 diff girls that started talking to me on POF WTF? are they like to classy to have a guy try to talk to them first?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How am i getting dates only with the girls that are contacting me on POF?
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backseatjuan
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Internet is a dream come to reality, they all are looking for their dream man on the internet. To qualify you must have a killer body and looks and perfect picture. (tip: photoshop your pics)
I too only got laid with online contacts when they contacted me. I got contacted my first day on POF and the we met that same night, our date started at 11pm. At 12:30 I f`cked her on the back seat of my car. I was her dream and I was ready to f`ck her.
That's why online sux, it's ok to have it and wait for contacts come to you, but not the other way around. Real life is much different than online, odds are much more in your favor if you approach.
P.S. if you put a pic of a big d`ck in your profile or tell them that you have a monster in your pants, your looks won't matter much.
I too only got laid with online contacts when they contacted me. I got contacted my first day on POF and the we met that same night, our date started at 11pm. At 12:30 I f`cked her on the back seat of my car. I was her dream and I was ready to f`ck her.
That's why online sux, it's ok to have it and wait for contacts come to you, but not the other way around. Real life is much different than online, odds are much more in your favor if you approach.
P.S. if you put a pic of a big d`ck in your profile or tell them that you have a monster in your pants, your looks won't matter much.
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Read between th- you know already.backseatjuan said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It's a matter of interest. Those who contact you are most interested. Same goes for real-life - those who approach you are most interested. Otherwise, they wouldn't be doing it. It's always hard to gain someone's interest. That's not to say it doesn't hurt to try, because you never know. Even making small talk, and see what happens. They might fear rejection, too. But your chances are always greater when someone is already into you, and makes sure you know about it.
backseatjuan
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Make your body interest them, then they all come to you and asked for a date. Attraction is about looks man, if you're hot you're hot, if you're ugly you can convince a not so attractive chick that you're hot but it's hard. In real life you just have to fit a general alpha male type to be hot and datable, online you have fit a perfect image they see on TV, so it's harder online.