all the girls i have initiated the contact they either never replied, did reply then eventually stop replying, or got a number and almost set up a date but not fall through, yet i just have had 2 dates with 2 diff girls that started talking to me on POF WTF? are they like to classy to have a guy try to talk to them first?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How am i getting dates only with the girls that are contacting me on POF?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backseatjuan
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Internet is a dream come to reality, they all are looking for their dream man on the internet. To qualify you must have a killer body and looks and perfect picture. (tip: photoshop your pics)
I too only got laid with online contacts when they contacted me. I got contacted my first day on POF and the we met that same night, our date started at 11pm. At 12:30 I f`cked her on the back seat of my car. I was her dream and I was ready to f`ck her.
That's why online sux, it's ok to have it and wait for contacts come to you, but not the other way around. Real life is much different than online, odds are much more in your favor if you approach.
P.S. if you put a pic of a big d`ck in your profile or tell them that you have a monster in your pants, your looks won't matter much.
I too only got laid with online contacts when they contacted me. I got contacted my first day on POF and the we met that same night, our date started at 11pm. At 12:30 I f`cked her on the back seat of my car. I was her dream and I was ready to f`ck her.
That's why online sux, it's ok to have it and wait for contacts come to you, but not the other way around. Real life is much different than online, odds are much more in your favor if you approach.
P.S. if you put a pic of a big d`ck in your profile or tell them that you have a monster in your pants, your looks won't matter much.
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Read between th- you know already.backseatjuan said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It's a matter of interest. Those who contact you are most interested. Same goes for real-life - those who approach you are most interested. Otherwise, they wouldn't be doing it. It's always hard to gain someone's interest. That's not to say it doesn't hurt to try, because you never know. Even making small talk, and see what happens. They might fear rejection, too. But your chances are always greater when someone is already into you, and makes sure you know about it.
backseatjuan
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Make your body interest them, then they all come to you and asked for a date. Attraction is about looks man, if you're hot you're hot, if you're ugly you can convince a not so attractive chick that you're hot but it's hard. In real life you just have to fit a general alpha male type to be hot and datable, online you have fit a perfect image they see on TV, so it's harder online.