all the girls i have initiated the contact they either never replied, did reply then eventually stop replying, or got a number and almost set up a date but not fall through, yet i just have had 2 dates with 2 diff girls that started talking to me on POF WTF? are they like to classy to have a guy try to talk to them first?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How am i getting dates only with the girls that are contacting me on POF?
- Thread starter whosthat
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
backseatjuan
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Internet is a dream come to reality, they all are looking for their dream man on the internet. To qualify you must have a killer body and looks and perfect picture. (tip: photoshop your pics)
I too only got laid with online contacts when they contacted me. I got contacted my first day on POF and the we met that same night, our date started at 11pm. At 12:30 I f`cked her on the back seat of my car. I was her dream and I was ready to f`ck her.
That's why online sux, it's ok to have it and wait for contacts come to you, but not the other way around. Real life is much different than online, odds are much more in your favor if you approach.
P.S. if you put a pic of a big d`ck in your profile or tell them that you have a monster in your pants, your looks won't matter much.
I too only got laid with online contacts when they contacted me. I got contacted my first day on POF and the we met that same night, our date started at 11pm. At 12:30 I f`cked her on the back seat of my car. I was her dream and I was ready to f`ck her.
That's why online sux, it's ok to have it and wait for contacts come to you, but not the other way around. Real life is much different than online, odds are much more in your favor if you approach.
P.S. if you put a pic of a big d`ck in your profile or tell them that you have a monster in your pants, your looks won't matter much.
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Read between th- you know already.backseatjuan said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's a matter of interest. Those who contact you are most interested. Same goes for real-life - those who approach you are most interested. Otherwise, they wouldn't be doing it. It's always hard to gain someone's interest. That's not to say it doesn't hurt to try, because you never know. Even making small talk, and see what happens. They might fear rejection, too. But your chances are always greater when someone is already into you, and makes sure you know about it.
backseatjuan
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Make your body interest them, then they all come to you and asked for a date. Attraction is about looks man, if you're hot you're hot, if you're ugly you can convince a not so attractive chick that you're hot but it's hard. In real life you just have to fit a general alpha male type to be hot and datable, online you have fit a perfect image they see on TV, so it's harder online.