all the girls i have initiated the contact they either never replied, did reply then eventually stop replying, or got a number and almost set up a date but not fall through, yet i just have had 2 dates with 2 diff girls that started talking to me on POF WTF? are they like to classy to have a guy try to talk to them first?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How am i getting dates only with the girls that are contacting me on POF?
- Thread starter whosthat
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
backseatjuan
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Internet is a dream come to reality, they all are looking for their dream man on the internet. To qualify you must have a killer body and looks and perfect picture. (tip: photoshop your pics)
I too only got laid with online contacts when they contacted me. I got contacted my first day on POF and the we met that same night, our date started at 11pm. At 12:30 I f`cked her on the back seat of my car. I was her dream and I was ready to f`ck her.
That's why online sux, it's ok to have it and wait for contacts come to you, but not the other way around. Real life is much different than online, odds are much more in your favor if you approach.
P.S. if you put a pic of a big d`ck in your profile or tell them that you have a monster in your pants, your looks won't matter much.
I too only got laid with online contacts when they contacted me. I got contacted my first day on POF and the we met that same night, our date started at 11pm. At 12:30 I f`cked her on the back seat of my car. I was her dream and I was ready to f`ck her.
That's why online sux, it's ok to have it and wait for contacts come to you, but not the other way around. Real life is much different than online, odds are much more in your favor if you approach.
P.S. if you put a pic of a big d`ck in your profile or tell them that you have a monster in your pants, your looks won't matter much.
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Read between th- you know already.backseatjuan said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
It's a matter of interest. Those who contact you are most interested. Same goes for real-life - those who approach you are most interested. Otherwise, they wouldn't be doing it. It's always hard to gain someone's interest. That's not to say it doesn't hurt to try, because you never know. Even making small talk, and see what happens. They might fear rejection, too. But your chances are always greater when someone is already into you, and makes sure you know about it.
backseatjuan
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Make your body interest them, then they all come to you and asked for a date. Attraction is about looks man, if you're hot you're hot, if you're ugly you can convince a not so attractive chick that you're hot but it's hard. In real life you just have to fit a general alpha male type to be hot and datable, online you have fit a perfect image they see on TV, so it's harder online.