"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hottest chick I have met so far lives 1 hour away...

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Eulogy

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What to do? I have no car.

I met her at a beach in another province and we had a blast and exchanged info.

She lives exactly one hour away. How would you guys set this up? Or am I just suffering from stupid one-itis? She's the first HB10 I've come across that just melts whenever she sees me.

Public transport seems kinda lame if I go there... what would I say? Where would I bang her... etc. etc.

Just tell her to come here, then?

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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if she really likes you she'll drive to wherever you are.

i met a girl once that lived two hours away and she agreed to drive to where i live to go on dates.

i don't know about a relationship though.
 
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StringShredder

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An hour away? By what measure? That sounds meaningless.

Is it an hour away in bumper-to-bumper traffic? Or unrestricted freeway driving?

How long would it take by bicycle?

There are no HB10's. Anything above HB9 is in your head. :)
 
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DrMetallica

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1 hour away is nothing to come between you and a good relationship. My girlfriend lives in another county, n I drive through 3 different cities and 3 costal valleys to get to her house.
 
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1 hr doesnt seem too long for someone from NYC. but theres public transportation here that will take you to any part of the city. not too sure if your that lucky. but if you are, then dont worry, just grab some reading material and get your a** on the train =P
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by iCY
1 hr doesnt seem too long for someone from NYC. but theres public transportation here that will take you to any part of the city. not too sure if your that lucky. but if you are, then dont worry, just grab some reading material and get your a** on the train =P
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yea, he's right. First you said she lives too far and you don't drive, so I figured you live in somewhere like Texas where there isn't much public transportation, but you say there is, so I see no problem of taking it......after all it is a HB10:cheer:
 
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You've got stupid one-itis

You the "man" take ur azz to her.

I'm dating this guy who lives an hour and a half away. Everyother weekend he comes see's me and the others I go see him.

compromise...meet her half way for dinner. Spend the night over her house for the weekend.
 
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