"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hottest chick I have met so far lives 1 hour away...

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Eulogy

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What to do? I have no car.

I met her at a beach in another province and we had a blast and exchanged info.

She lives exactly one hour away. How would you guys set this up? Or am I just suffering from stupid one-itis? She's the first HB10 I've come across that just melts whenever she sees me.

Public transport seems kinda lame if I go there... what would I say? Where would I bang her... etc. etc.

Just tell her to come here, then?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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if she really likes you she'll drive to wherever you are.

i met a girl once that lived two hours away and she agreed to drive to where i live to go on dates.

i don't know about a relationship though.
 
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StringShredder

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An hour away? By what measure? That sounds meaningless.

Is it an hour away in bumper-to-bumper traffic? Or unrestricted freeway driving?

How long would it take by bicycle?

There are no HB10's. Anything above HB9 is in your head. :)
 
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1 hour away is nothing to come between you and a good relationship. My girlfriend lives in another county, n I drive through 3 different cities and 3 costal valleys to get to her house.
 
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1 hr doesnt seem too long for someone from NYC. but theres public transportation here that will take you to any part of the city. not too sure if your that lucky. but if you are, then dont worry, just grab some reading material and get your a** on the train =P
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by iCY
1 hr doesnt seem too long for someone from NYC. but theres public transportation here that will take you to any part of the city. not too sure if your that lucky. but if you are, then dont worry, just grab some reading material and get your a** on the train =P
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yea, he's right. First you said she lives too far and you don't drive, so I figured you live in somewhere like Texas where there isn't much public transportation, but you say there is, so I see no problem of taking it......after all it is a HB10:cheer:
 
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You've got stupid one-itis

You the "man" take ur azz to her.

I'm dating this guy who lives an hour and a half away. Everyother weekend he comes see's me and the others I go see him.

compromise...meet her half way for dinner. Spend the night over her house for the weekend.
 
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