"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hottest chick I have met so far lives 1 hour away...

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Eulogy

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What to do? I have no car.

I met her at a beach in another province and we had a blast and exchanged info.

She lives exactly one hour away. How would you guys set this up? Or am I just suffering from stupid one-itis? She's the first HB10 I've come across that just melts whenever she sees me.

Public transport seems kinda lame if I go there... what would I say? Where would I bang her... etc. etc.

Just tell her to come here, then?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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h2o

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if she really likes you she'll drive to wherever you are.

i met a girl once that lived two hours away and she agreed to drive to where i live to go on dates.

i don't know about a relationship though.
 
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StringShredder

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An hour away? By what measure? That sounds meaningless.

Is it an hour away in bumper-to-bumper traffic? Or unrestricted freeway driving?

How long would it take by bicycle?

There are no HB10's. Anything above HB9 is in your head. :)
 
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DrMetallica

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1 hour away is nothing to come between you and a good relationship. My girlfriend lives in another county, n I drive through 3 different cities and 3 costal valleys to get to her house.
 
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1 hr doesnt seem too long for someone from NYC. but theres public transportation here that will take you to any part of the city. not too sure if your that lucky. but if you are, then dont worry, just grab some reading material and get your a** on the train =P
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by iCY
1 hr doesnt seem too long for someone from NYC. but theres public transportation here that will take you to any part of the city. not too sure if your that lucky. but if you are, then dont worry, just grab some reading material and get your a** on the train =P
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yea, he's right. First you said she lives too far and you don't drive, so I figured you live in somewhere like Texas where there isn't much public transportation, but you say there is, so I see no problem of taking it......after all it is a HB10:cheer:
 
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You've got stupid one-itis

You the "man" take ur azz to her.

I'm dating this guy who lives an hour and a half away. Everyother weekend he comes see's me and the others I go see him.

compromise...meet her half way for dinner. Spend the night over her house for the weekend.
 
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