"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hottest chick I have met so far lives 1 hour away...

Eulogy

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What to do? I have no car.

I met her at a beach in another province and we had a blast and exchanged info.

She lives exactly one hour away. How would you guys set this up? Or am I just suffering from stupid one-itis? She's the first HB10 I've come across that just melts whenever she sees me.

Public transport seems kinda lame if I go there... what would I say? Where would I bang her... etc. etc.

Just tell her to come here, then?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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h2o

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if she really likes you she'll drive to wherever you are.

i met a girl once that lived two hours away and she agreed to drive to where i live to go on dates.

i don't know about a relationship though.
 

StringShredder

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An hour away? By what measure? That sounds meaningless.

Is it an hour away in bumper-to-bumper traffic? Or unrestricted freeway driving?

How long would it take by bicycle?

There are no HB10's. Anything above HB9 is in your head. :)
 

DrMetallica

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1 hour away is nothing to come between you and a good relationship. My girlfriend lives in another county, n I drive through 3 different cities and 3 costal valleys to get to her house.
 

iCY

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1 hr doesnt seem too long for someone from NYC. but theres public transportation here that will take you to any part of the city. not too sure if your that lucky. but if you are, then dont worry, just grab some reading material and get your a** on the train =P
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by iCY
1 hr doesnt seem too long for someone from NYC. but theres public transportation here that will take you to any part of the city. not too sure if your that lucky. but if you are, then dont worry, just grab some reading material and get your a** on the train =P
yea, he's right. First you said she lives too far and you don't drive, so I figured you live in somewhere like Texas where there isn't much public transportation, but you say there is, so I see no problem of taking it......after all it is a HB10:cheer:
 

XtremeRacingDiva

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You've got stupid one-itis

You the "man" take ur azz to her.

I'm dating this guy who lives an hour and a half away. Everyother weekend he comes see's me and the others I go see him.

compromise...meet her half way for dinner. Spend the night over her house for the weekend.
 
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