"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hot Prof, I think she wants me... what now?

izza

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Hello all,

I'm doing an exchange here in France, studying mostly music, and my prof for piano sight-reading is cute. She's at least an 8, really sweet, and also quite French. Nice.

What's more, I think she finds me attractive... it doesn't hurt to have a foreign accent, I suppose. In any case, she's not really a prof, she's like a master's student, so I'm probably about her age. But I'm in a tutorial with 7 other students at a time, so it's a bit hard to strike up a super-personal conversation in class, or to, I dunno, ask for her number in front of everyone else.

Has anybody out there seriously picked up a prof or teacher before? I could stay after class, converse with her a bit and see what happens. Do you have any ideas? Please post your thoughts. Thanks a lot everyone,

David
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"...and the project was really hard for me. And that test, boy i think i messed up. The second section i was like woah, i dont know this stuff. It was so hard, you'd have to be like a genius to get it. So i guess what i'm saying is would you suck my d!ck?"
 

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You do realize that "picking her up" could result in her getting fired, right?
 

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Dude, she's a fvckin TA, go for it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Dude, she's a fvckin TA, go for it.
she's like a master's student
I think theres a difference between a TA and a master's student.
 

izza

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
"...and the project was really hard for me. And that test, boy i think i messed up. The second section i was like woah, i dont know this stuff. It was so hard, you'd have to be like a genius to get it. So i guess what i'm saying is would you suck my d!ck?"
LOL


For the record, it's a tutorial (no grade is given), so there's no way she would get fired. The good news is, today I did find out what her name is finally, but I had to go early so I can't stick around afterwards to ask some stupid questions heh.

--Izza
 

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get with her like you would any other girl. if her job is THAT big of an issue, then she won't (shouldn't) let it happen. Totally NOT your problem.

I have a rule about passing up chances with beautiful french women: DON'T!
 

izza

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Originally posted by smoke city
get with her like you would any other girl. if her job is THAT big of an issue, then she won't (shouldn't) let it happen. Totally NOT your problem.
Good point man, thanks a lot.

I have a rule about passing up chances with beautiful french women: DON'T!
LOL, amen
 
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