"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Hot Prof, I think she wants me... what now?

izza

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
989
Reaction score
16
Location
Midwest USA
Hello all,

I'm doing an exchange here in France, studying mostly music, and my prof for piano sight-reading is cute. She's at least an 8, really sweet, and also quite French. Nice.

What's more, I think she finds me attractive... it doesn't hurt to have a foreign accent, I suppose. In any case, she's not really a prof, she's like a master's student, so I'm probably about her age. But I'm in a tutorial with 7 other students at a time, so it's a bit hard to strike up a super-personal conversation in class, or to, I dunno, ask for her number in front of everyone else.

Has anybody out there seriously picked up a prof or teacher before? I could stay after class, converse with her a bit and see what happens. Do you have any ideas? Please post your thoughts. Thanks a lot everyone,

David
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Big Eee Zee

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 14, 2005
Messages
584
Reaction score
1
Age
39
Location
sweetville
"...and the project was really hard for me. And that test, boy i think i messed up. The second section i was like woah, i dont know this stuff. It was so hard, you'd have to be like a genius to get it. So i guess what i'm saying is would you suck my d!ck?"
 

Duo

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 9, 2005
Messages
32
Reaction score
1
You do realize that "picking her up" could result in her getting fired, right?
 

Gonzalo

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 11, 2003
Messages
448
Reaction score
1
Age
44
Dude, she's a fvckin TA, go for it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
Originally posted by Gonzalo
Dude, she's a fvckin TA, go for it.
she's like a master's student
I think theres a difference between a TA and a master's student.
 

izza

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
989
Reaction score
16
Location
Midwest USA
Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
"...and the project was really hard for me. And that test, boy i think i messed up. The second section i was like woah, i dont know this stuff. It was so hard, you'd have to be like a genius to get it. So i guess what i'm saying is would you suck my d!ck?"
LOL


For the record, it's a tutorial (no grade is given), so there's no way she would get fired. The good news is, today I did find out what her name is finally, but I had to go early so I can't stick around afterwards to ask some stupid questions heh.

--Izza
 

smoke city

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2004
Messages
197
Reaction score
0
get with her like you would any other girl. if her job is THAT big of an issue, then she won't (shouldn't) let it happen. Totally NOT your problem.

I have a rule about passing up chances with beautiful french women: DON'T!
 

izza

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
989
Reaction score
16
Location
Midwest USA
Originally posted by smoke city
get with her like you would any other girl. if her job is THAT big of an issue, then she won't (shouldn't) let it happen. Totally NOT your problem.
Good point man, thanks a lot.

I have a rule about passing up chances with beautiful french women: DON'T!
LOL, amen
 
Top