"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hot Prof, I think she wants me... what now?

izza

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Hello all,

I'm doing an exchange here in France, studying mostly music, and my prof for piano sight-reading is cute. She's at least an 8, really sweet, and also quite French. Nice.

What's more, I think she finds me attractive... it doesn't hurt to have a foreign accent, I suppose. In any case, she's not really a prof, she's like a master's student, so I'm probably about her age. But I'm in a tutorial with 7 other students at a time, so it's a bit hard to strike up a super-personal conversation in class, or to, I dunno, ask for her number in front of everyone else.

Has anybody out there seriously picked up a prof or teacher before? I could stay after class, converse with her a bit and see what happens. Do you have any ideas? Please post your thoughts. Thanks a lot everyone,

David
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Big Eee Zee

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"...and the project was really hard for me. And that test, boy i think i messed up. The second section i was like woah, i dont know this stuff. It was so hard, you'd have to be like a genius to get it. So i guess what i'm saying is would you suck my d!ck?"
 

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You do realize that "picking her up" could result in her getting fired, right?
 

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Dude, she's a fvckin TA, go for it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Dude, she's a fvckin TA, go for it.
she's like a master's student
I think theres a difference between a TA and a master's student.
 

izza

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
"...and the project was really hard for me. And that test, boy i think i messed up. The second section i was like woah, i dont know this stuff. It was so hard, you'd have to be like a genius to get it. So i guess what i'm saying is would you suck my d!ck?"
LOL


For the record, it's a tutorial (no grade is given), so there's no way she would get fired. The good news is, today I did find out what her name is finally, but I had to go early so I can't stick around afterwards to ask some stupid questions heh.

--Izza
 

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get with her like you would any other girl. if her job is THAT big of an issue, then she won't (shouldn't) let it happen. Totally NOT your problem.

I have a rule about passing up chances with beautiful french women: DON'T!
 

izza

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Originally posted by smoke city
get with her like you would any other girl. if her job is THAT big of an issue, then she won't (shouldn't) let it happen. Totally NOT your problem.
Good point man, thanks a lot.

I have a rule about passing up chances with beautiful french women: DON'T!
LOL, amen
 
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