"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HOT, Cute AFC Women? Do they exist?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yeah. they're the 'good girls'
 

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no.

not for long.

this is the naive dream.

if they're hot and they're not a shut in, they realize their power very very quickly.

any time after puberty, you will not find such creatures.

delta
 

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Yes, but if they act AFC, you aren't going to want them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Juan_Man said:
Yes, but if they act AFC, you aren't going to want them.
If a hot chick acts AFC, you won't want her? Yea, whatever...
With your line of thinking, I guess you would be all over the fat ugly chick who acts like a female DJ.
 

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one word: religion. yep, they marry early and in only a matter of months too.
 

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juan_man,

that is completely absolutely and ludicrously inaccurate.

it DOESN'T MATTER IF A CHICK ACTS AFC! if she's got t&a, WHO THE F CARES?!?!?!

this is the burden of MEN. NOT WOMEN!

this is why all the chick books written about "how to get a man" may as well be summed up on page one, sentence one:

GET HOT.

very very very easy.

delta

blueguy - hmmm, interesting angle on the religion thing.... but still... MAYBE... maybe they really don't know. if they're really hot, i'm sure they get a lot of guys just paying religion lip service to get close to them... and they themselves may be doing the same. i say if they're really hot, they know.
 

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I think the girls you're talking about are usually referred to as "flakes" or "messed up in the head," and no, you generally don't want them
 

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if she isn't so flakey as to not show up, and if she's screwy in the head and hot in the bod... i am still completely and totally down with that.

delta
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes, they are called "virgins" - ie. women - have you heard of them??
 

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I beg to differ. If a hot girl won't leave you alone, it's going to kill your attraction for her. In fact, you are going to straight-up run!
 

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I will keep bringing in this question 'till my keyboard breaks apart, but tell me this, honestly:

how do you know if a girl is really a "good" one or is just throwing game at you, like leading you to believe that she is "waiting" or something yet she goes out and nail three guys behind your back?

Maybe all the "good girls" stuff is just a proactive LJBF?! From my experience, girls turn WILD when they face a man they perceive as valuable.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Yes, they are called "virgins" - ie. women - have you heard of them??
Yes I do, and as soon as Brad Pitt comes on they will surely keep their legs close. Yeah right. :rolleyes:

BTW where's titty man? I hope he comes on around here and throw some harsh advice so we can wise up a little more.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
Try a South American country. Maybe some European countries.
I am in Brazil and still haven't found any.

Thought I knew some, but the past weeks forced me to change my mind.
 

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Yo Troops,

As you go about your manuevers (see---LIVE YOUR LIFE), and fight more and more battles (see---MEET MORE AND MORE WOMEN), you will find that ANY girl can be transformed into an AFC/Nice Girl "IF" she encounters the RIGHT guy...

You see, EVERY woman has a TYPE that she REALLY goes for MORE than any other. And if she ever meets him----and he's a well-trained DJ (see---- A REAL MASCULINE MAN), then stick a fork into her, soldiers-----because she's DONE!

Fight ON!
 

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Delta said:
no.

not for long.

this is the naive dream.

if they're hot and they're not a shut in, they realize their power very very quickly.

any time after puberty, you will not find such creatures.

delta
Obviously you have not been to Lithuania. I think Lithuanian girls (not the ones who move to the West) are the friendliest things on the planet. Genetics from heaven as well. Actually, all of the former Soviet Union would qualify. The guys there are not as horny as you dudes are. There culture doesn't kiss a$$ to females. Plus the girls are not spoiled with too much money.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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