"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HOT, Cute AFC Women? Do they exist?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Delta
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not for long.
this is the naive dream.
if they're hot and they're not a shut in, they realize their power very very quickly.
any time after puberty, you will not find such creatures.
delta
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Delta
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that is completely absolutely and ludicrously inaccurate.
it DOESN'T MATTER IF A CHICK ACTS AFC! if she's got t&a, WHO THE F CARES?!?!?!
this is the burden of MEN. NOT WOMEN!
this is why all the chick books written about "how to get a man" may as well be summed up on page one, sentence one:
GET HOT.
very very very easy.
delta
blueguy - hmmm, interesting angle on the religion thing.... but still... MAYBE... maybe they really don't know. if they're really hot, i'm sure they get a lot of guys just paying religion lip service to get close to them... and they themselves may be doing the same. i say if they're really hot, they know.
Delta
Master Don Juan
delta
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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how do you know if a girl is really a "good" one or is just throwing game at you, like leading you to believe that she is "waiting" or something yet she goes out and nail three guys behind your back?
Maybe all the "good girls" stuff is just a proactive LJBF?! From my experience, girls turn WILD when they face a man they perceive as valuable.
Yes I do, and as soon as Brad Pitt comes on they will surely keep their legs close. Yeah right.Last Man Standing said:
BTW where's titty man? I hope he comes on around here and throw some harsh advice so we can wise up a little more.
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Try a South American country. Maybe some European countries.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Bull****. You send all the hot easy women to me then, dork.Juan_Man said:
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As you go about your manuevers (see---LIVE YOUR LIFE), and fight more and more battles (see---MEET MORE AND MORE WOMEN), you will find that ANY girl can be transformed into an AFC/Nice Girl "IF" she encounters the RIGHT guy...
You see, EVERY woman has a TYPE that she REALLY goes for MORE than any other. And if she ever meets him----and he's a well-trained DJ (see---- A REAL MASCULINE MAN), then stick a fork into her, soldiers-----because she's DONE!
Fight ON!
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Obviously you have not been to Lithuania. I think Lithuanian girls (not the ones who move to the West) are the friendliest things on the planet. Genetics from heaven as well. Actually, all of the former Soviet Union would qualify. The guys there are not as horny as you dudes are. There culture doesn't kiss a$$ to females. Plus the girls are not spoiled with too much money.Delta said:
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.