"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HOT, Cute AFC Women? Do they exist?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yeah. they're the 'good girls'
 

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no.

not for long.

this is the naive dream.

if they're hot and they're not a shut in, they realize their power very very quickly.

any time after puberty, you will not find such creatures.

delta
 

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Yes, but if they act AFC, you aren't going to want them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Juan_Man said:
Yes, but if they act AFC, you aren't going to want them.
If a hot chick acts AFC, you won't want her? Yea, whatever...
With your line of thinking, I guess you would be all over the fat ugly chick who acts like a female DJ.
 

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one word: religion. yep, they marry early and in only a matter of months too.
 

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juan_man,

that is completely absolutely and ludicrously inaccurate.

it DOESN'T MATTER IF A CHICK ACTS AFC! if she's got t&a, WHO THE F CARES?!?!?!

this is the burden of MEN. NOT WOMEN!

this is why all the chick books written about "how to get a man" may as well be summed up on page one, sentence one:

GET HOT.

very very very easy.

delta

blueguy - hmmm, interesting angle on the religion thing.... but still... MAYBE... maybe they really don't know. if they're really hot, i'm sure they get a lot of guys just paying religion lip service to get close to them... and they themselves may be doing the same. i say if they're really hot, they know.
 

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I think the girls you're talking about are usually referred to as "flakes" or "messed up in the head," and no, you generally don't want them
 

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if she isn't so flakey as to not show up, and if she's screwy in the head and hot in the bod... i am still completely and totally down with that.

delta
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, they are called "virgins" - ie. women - have you heard of them??
 

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I beg to differ. If a hot girl won't leave you alone, it's going to kill your attraction for her. In fact, you are going to straight-up run!
 

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I will keep bringing in this question 'till my keyboard breaks apart, but tell me this, honestly:

how do you know if a girl is really a "good" one or is just throwing game at you, like leading you to believe that she is "waiting" or something yet she goes out and nail three guys behind your back?

Maybe all the "good girls" stuff is just a proactive LJBF?! From my experience, girls turn WILD when they face a man they perceive as valuable.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Yes, they are called "virgins" - ie. women - have you heard of them??
Yes I do, and as soon as Brad Pitt comes on they will surely keep their legs close. Yeah right. :rolleyes:

BTW where's titty man? I hope he comes on around here and throw some harsh advice so we can wise up a little more.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
Try a South American country. Maybe some European countries.
I am in Brazil and still haven't found any.

Thought I knew some, but the past weeks forced me to change my mind.
 

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Yo Troops,

As you go about your manuevers (see---LIVE YOUR LIFE), and fight more and more battles (see---MEET MORE AND MORE WOMEN), you will find that ANY girl can be transformed into an AFC/Nice Girl "IF" she encounters the RIGHT guy...

You see, EVERY woman has a TYPE that she REALLY goes for MORE than any other. And if she ever meets him----and he's a well-trained DJ (see---- A REAL MASCULINE MAN), then stick a fork into her, soldiers-----because she's DONE!

Fight ON!
 

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Delta said:
no.

not for long.

this is the naive dream.

if they're hot and they're not a shut in, they realize their power very very quickly.

any time after puberty, you will not find such creatures.

delta
Obviously you have not been to Lithuania. I think Lithuanian girls (not the ones who move to the West) are the friendliest things on the planet. Genetics from heaven as well. Actually, all of the former Soviet Union would qualify. The guys there are not as horny as you dudes are. There culture doesn't kiss a$$ to females. Plus the girls are not spoiled with too much money.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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