"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HOT, Cute AFC Women? Do they exist?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yeah. they're the 'good girls'
 

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no.

not for long.

this is the naive dream.

if they're hot and they're not a shut in, they realize their power very very quickly.

any time after puberty, you will not find such creatures.

delta
 

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Yes, but if they act AFC, you aren't going to want them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Juan_Man said:
Yes, but if they act AFC, you aren't going to want them.
If a hot chick acts AFC, you won't want her? Yea, whatever...
With your line of thinking, I guess you would be all over the fat ugly chick who acts like a female DJ.
 

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one word: religion. yep, they marry early and in only a matter of months too.
 

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juan_man,

that is completely absolutely and ludicrously inaccurate.

it DOESN'T MATTER IF A CHICK ACTS AFC! if she's got t&a, WHO THE F CARES?!?!?!

this is the burden of MEN. NOT WOMEN!

this is why all the chick books written about "how to get a man" may as well be summed up on page one, sentence one:

GET HOT.

very very very easy.

delta

blueguy - hmmm, interesting angle on the religion thing.... but still... MAYBE... maybe they really don't know. if they're really hot, i'm sure they get a lot of guys just paying religion lip service to get close to them... and they themselves may be doing the same. i say if they're really hot, they know.
 

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I think the girls you're talking about are usually referred to as "flakes" or "messed up in the head," and no, you generally don't want them
 

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if she isn't so flakey as to not show up, and if she's screwy in the head and hot in the bod... i am still completely and totally down with that.

delta
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes, they are called "virgins" - ie. women - have you heard of them??
 

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I beg to differ. If a hot girl won't leave you alone, it's going to kill your attraction for her. In fact, you are going to straight-up run!
 

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I will keep bringing in this question 'till my keyboard breaks apart, but tell me this, honestly:

how do you know if a girl is really a "good" one or is just throwing game at you, like leading you to believe that she is "waiting" or something yet she goes out and nail three guys behind your back?

Maybe all the "good girls" stuff is just a proactive LJBF?! From my experience, girls turn WILD when they face a man they perceive as valuable.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Yes, they are called "virgins" - ie. women - have you heard of them??
Yes I do, and as soon as Brad Pitt comes on they will surely keep their legs close. Yeah right. :rolleyes:

BTW where's titty man? I hope he comes on around here and throw some harsh advice so we can wise up a little more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
Try a South American country. Maybe some European countries.
I am in Brazil and still haven't found any.

Thought I knew some, but the past weeks forced me to change my mind.
 

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Yo Troops,

As you go about your manuevers (see---LIVE YOUR LIFE), and fight more and more battles (see---MEET MORE AND MORE WOMEN), you will find that ANY girl can be transformed into an AFC/Nice Girl "IF" she encounters the RIGHT guy...

You see, EVERY woman has a TYPE that she REALLY goes for MORE than any other. And if she ever meets him----and he's a well-trained DJ (see---- A REAL MASCULINE MAN), then stick a fork into her, soldiers-----because she's DONE!

Fight ON!
 

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Delta said:
no.

not for long.

this is the naive dream.

if they're hot and they're not a shut in, they realize their power very very quickly.

any time after puberty, you will not find such creatures.

delta
Obviously you have not been to Lithuania. I think Lithuanian girls (not the ones who move to the West) are the friendliest things on the planet. Genetics from heaven as well. Actually, all of the former Soviet Union would qualify. The guys there are not as horny as you dudes are. There culture doesn't kiss a$$ to females. Plus the girls are not spoiled with too much money.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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