So i get a few numbers everyday no problems with almost no effort. I just ask them out straight up and they give me their number. BUT about half of the girls ask me lots of questions over the phone/via txts and ****. I noticed the more "quality" (non whorish type) girls will do this, while the other girls will just come out with me. NOW my question is, what is the reasoning behind this? Not trying to be easy and go out with someone they hardly know? Obviously theyre interested for giving me their number, but i noticed some women even with VERY high IL will do this. My player friends and i call this "starting the date early" lol. Are women just very conservative and afraid to take a risk? :crazy: I mean the whole point of going on a "date" is to get to know eachother. What do you think bros?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hot chicks asking me lots of questions before going on a date.
- Thread starter Tear Gas
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
so she just wants to make sure im not some psycho huh? kinda stupid cause psychos know how to act "sane" and "normal" when they need to. I personally act very differently with people i dont really know than when im with myself/close friends and know exactly what to say to girls just to make them feel "safe". I mean, it's pretty easy to make up sh1t a b1tch wants to hear just to get in her pants. I have no problem lying to women as well. oh well, i guess women will do what they can to make sure im not a "creep" :crackup: dumb hos, they have no idea.JDA70 said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Ever figure that maybe that's it, that they really are just trying to figure out bit more about you? Comfort/safety is pretty much the reasoning behind it, most aren't comfortable walking into a date with someone they know nothing about.Tear Gas said:
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Or your number closing just a little too soon. But either way, it's a good thing. Or maybe they're just REALLY interested and do want to start the date early.
dude if theyre textin you right off the bat like that.......then i feel like.........ur doin something RIGHT. keep doin what your doin based on the questions they are asking you they are trying to havea further conversation with you i think its a good thing for sure
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Maybe, they gave you their number so quick they didn't get a chance to really know you. So, they wanna know a lil more about you before the date.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
They are deciding weather to show up for the date or not. They are qualifying you. Get used to it.