So i get a few numbers everyday no problems with almost no effort. I just ask them out straight up and they give me their number. BUT about half of the girls ask me lots of questions over the phone/via txts and ****. I noticed the more "quality" (non whorish type) girls will do this, while the other girls will just come out with me. NOW my question is, what is the reasoning behind this? Not trying to be easy and go out with someone they hardly know? Obviously theyre interested for giving me their number, but i noticed some women even with VERY high IL will do this. My player friends and i call this "starting the date early" lol. Are women just very conservative and afraid to take a risk? :crazy: I mean the whole point of going on a "date" is to get to know eachother. What do you think bros?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Hot chicks asking me lots of questions before going on a date.
- Thread starter Tear Gas
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
so she just wants to make sure im not some psycho huh? kinda stupid cause psychos know how to act "sane" and "normal" when they need to. I personally act very differently with people i dont really know than when im with myself/close friends and know exactly what to say to girls just to make them feel "safe". I mean, it's pretty easy to make up sh1t a b1tch wants to hear just to get in her pants. I have no problem lying to women as well. oh well, i guess women will do what they can to make sure im not a "creep" :crackup: dumb hos, they have no idea.JDA70 said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Ever figure that maybe that's it, that they really are just trying to figure out bit more about you? Comfort/safety is pretty much the reasoning behind it, most aren't comfortable walking into a date with someone they know nothing about.Tear Gas said:
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Or your number closing just a little too soon. But either way, it's a good thing. Or maybe they're just REALLY interested and do want to start the date early.
dude if theyre textin you right off the bat like that.......then i feel like.........ur doin something RIGHT. keep doin what your doin based on the questions they are asking you they are trying to havea further conversation with you i think its a good thing for sure
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Maybe, they gave you their number so quick they didn't get a chance to really know you. So, they wanna know a lil more about you before the date.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
They are deciding weather to show up for the date or not. They are qualifying you. Get used to it.