So i get a few numbers everyday no problems with almost no effort. I just ask them out straight up and they give me their number. BUT about half of the girls ask me lots of questions over the phone/via txts and ****. I noticed the more "quality" (non whorish type) girls will do this, while the other girls will just come out with me. NOW my question is, what is the reasoning behind this? Not trying to be easy and go out with someone they hardly know? Obviously theyre interested for giving me their number, but i noticed some women even with VERY high IL will do this. My player friends and i call this "starting the date early" lol. Are women just very conservative and afraid to take a risk? :crazy: I mean the whole point of going on a "date" is to get to know eachother. What do you think bros?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hot chicks asking me lots of questions before going on a date.
- Thread starter Tear Gas
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
so she just wants to make sure im not some psycho huh? kinda stupid cause psychos know how to act "sane" and "normal" when they need to. I personally act very differently with people i dont really know than when im with myself/close friends and know exactly what to say to girls just to make them feel "safe". I mean, it's pretty easy to make up sh1t a b1tch wants to hear just to get in her pants. I have no problem lying to women as well. oh well, i guess women will do what they can to make sure im not a "creep" :crackup: dumb hos, they have no idea.JDA70 said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
OrangeCrusader
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Ever figure that maybe that's it, that they really are just trying to figure out bit more about you? Comfort/safety is pretty much the reasoning behind it, most aren't comfortable walking into a date with someone they know nothing about.Tear Gas said:
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Or your number closing just a little too soon. But either way, it's a good thing. Or maybe they're just REALLY interested and do want to start the date early.
dude if theyre textin you right off the bat like that.......then i feel like.........ur doin something RIGHT. keep doin what your doin based on the questions they are asking you they are trying to havea further conversation with you i think its a good thing for sure
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Maybe, they gave you their number so quick they didn't get a chance to really know you. So, they wanna know a lil more about you before the date.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
They are deciding weather to show up for the date or not. They are qualifying you. Get used to it.