Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hot chick @ my work

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This hot chick at my work is always kinda looking at me. Sometimes i think she's just checking if Im looking at her

I would never think in a million years she would be attracted to me. We work pretty close together and at times I can sense her looking at me when I walk by

I try not looking at her much so I don't seem creepy. We have made eye contact a few times for sure

If this chick were in my league I would chat with her. She's gotta be be 8.5/10 maybe a full 9 thats out of my league
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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vegas_pimp

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so what do you want?

dont mess with work girls unless you dont care about getting fired
 
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Ryan69 said:
This hot chick at my work is always kinda looking at me. Sometimes i think she's just checking if Im looking at her

I would never think in a million years she would be attracted to me. We work pretty close together and at times I can sense her looking at me when I walk by

I try not looking at her much so I don't seem creepy. We have made eye contact a few times for sure

If this chick were in my league I would chat with her. She's gotta be be 8.5/10 maybe a full 9 thats out of my league
by ur posts i can tell ur a virgin and dont get ***** dawg if she is fine,holla @t her,if she finds u attractive just spit some game and get da ***** before some other nicca does!
 

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I'm failing to see the point in your post. You tell us about a woman who's a 9/10 in your book, who is showing potential IOIs. Then you talk about how if she were in your league that you would approach, and she's too pretty to be in your league. So what is it you want? You already think there's no way she could be attracted to you, and that she's out of your league. Well guess what? She isn't attracted to you and she is out of your league, and it's all because of your mindset (to this point at least).

You lost before you even played, is it fun to live like that? I'd rather get my ass kicked in a game of anything, gaming chicks included, than not play and assume I would have lost. You need to be more positive. Approach her, do your best, and you will have succeeded. Even if she tells you to get lost, you'll come out better than you went in.
 
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If she rejects you then you know, but why reject yourself? Because you work closely with her you need to look for more signs of interest and do group hangouts. Most work flings end in disaster - but if you are making $5/hour then it doesn't matter!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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