"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hot chick @ my work

Ryan69

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This hot chick at my work is always kinda looking at me. Sometimes i think she's just checking if Im looking at her

I would never think in a million years she would be attracted to me. We work pretty close together and at times I can sense her looking at me when I walk by

I try not looking at her much so I don't seem creepy. We have made eye contact a few times for sure

If this chick were in my league I would chat with her. She's gotta be be 8.5/10 maybe a full 9 thats out of my league
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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vegas_pimp

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so what do you want?

dont mess with work girls unless you dont care about getting fired
 
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mexicanplayer2009

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Ryan69 said:
This hot chick at my work is always kinda looking at me. Sometimes i think she's just checking if Im looking at her

I would never think in a million years she would be attracted to me. We work pretty close together and at times I can sense her looking at me when I walk by

I try not looking at her much so I don't seem creepy. We have made eye contact a few times for sure

If this chick were in my league I would chat with her. She's gotta be be 8.5/10 maybe a full 9 thats out of my league
by ur posts i can tell ur a virgin and dont get ***** dawg if she is fine,holla @t her,if she finds u attractive just spit some game and get da ***** before some other nicca does!
 

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I'm failing to see the point in your post. You tell us about a woman who's a 9/10 in your book, who is showing potential IOIs. Then you talk about how if she were in your league that you would approach, and she's too pretty to be in your league. So what is it you want? You already think there's no way she could be attracted to you, and that she's out of your league. Well guess what? She isn't attracted to you and she is out of your league, and it's all because of your mindset (to this point at least).

You lost before you even played, is it fun to live like that? I'd rather get my ass kicked in a game of anything, gaming chicks included, than not play and assume I would have lost. You need to be more positive. Approach her, do your best, and you will have succeeded. Even if she tells you to get lost, you'll come out better than you went in.
 
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If she rejects you then you know, but why reject yourself? Because you work closely with her you need to look for more signs of interest and do group hangouts. Most work flings end in disaster - but if you are making $5/hour then it doesn't matter!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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