"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hot chick @ my work

Ryan69

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This hot chick at my work is always kinda looking at me. Sometimes i think she's just checking if Im looking at her

I would never think in a million years she would be attracted to me. We work pretty close together and at times I can sense her looking at me when I walk by

I try not looking at her much so I don't seem creepy. We have made eye contact a few times for sure

If this chick were in my league I would chat with her. She's gotta be be 8.5/10 maybe a full 9 thats out of my league
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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vegas_pimp

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so what do you want?

dont mess with work girls unless you dont care about getting fired
 
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mexicanplayer2009

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Ryan69 said:
This hot chick at my work is always kinda looking at me. Sometimes i think she's just checking if Im looking at her

I would never think in a million years she would be attracted to me. We work pretty close together and at times I can sense her looking at me when I walk by

I try not looking at her much so I don't seem creepy. We have made eye contact a few times for sure

If this chick were in my league I would chat with her. She's gotta be be 8.5/10 maybe a full 9 thats out of my league
by ur posts i can tell ur a virgin and dont get ***** dawg if she is fine,holla @t her,if she finds u attractive just spit some game and get da ***** before some other nicca does!
 

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I'm failing to see the point in your post. You tell us about a woman who's a 9/10 in your book, who is showing potential IOIs. Then you talk about how if she were in your league that you would approach, and she's too pretty to be in your league. So what is it you want? You already think there's no way she could be attracted to you, and that she's out of your league. Well guess what? She isn't attracted to you and she is out of your league, and it's all because of your mindset (to this point at least).

You lost before you even played, is it fun to live like that? I'd rather get my ass kicked in a game of anything, gaming chicks included, than not play and assume I would have lost. You need to be more positive. Approach her, do your best, and you will have succeeded. Even if she tells you to get lost, you'll come out better than you went in.
 
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If she rejects you then you know, but why reject yourself? Because you work closely with her you need to look for more signs of interest and do group hangouts. Most work flings end in disaster - but if you are making $5/hour then it doesn't matter!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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