"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hot chick @ my work

Ryan69

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This hot chick at my work is always kinda looking at me. Sometimes i think she's just checking if Im looking at her

I would never think in a million years she would be attracted to me. We work pretty close together and at times I can sense her looking at me when I walk by

I try not looking at her much so I don't seem creepy. We have made eye contact a few times for sure

If this chick were in my league I would chat with her. She's gotta be be 8.5/10 maybe a full 9 thats out of my league
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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vegas_pimp

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so what do you want?

dont mess with work girls unless you dont care about getting fired
 
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mexicanplayer2009

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Ryan69 said:
This hot chick at my work is always kinda looking at me. Sometimes i think she's just checking if Im looking at her

I would never think in a million years she would be attracted to me. We work pretty close together and at times I can sense her looking at me when I walk by

I try not looking at her much so I don't seem creepy. We have made eye contact a few times for sure

If this chick were in my league I would chat with her. She's gotta be be 8.5/10 maybe a full 9 thats out of my league
by ur posts i can tell ur a virgin and dont get ***** dawg if she is fine,holla @t her,if she finds u attractive just spit some game and get da ***** before some other nicca does!
 

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I'm failing to see the point in your post. You tell us about a woman who's a 9/10 in your book, who is showing potential IOIs. Then you talk about how if she were in your league that you would approach, and she's too pretty to be in your league. So what is it you want? You already think there's no way she could be attracted to you, and that she's out of your league. Well guess what? She isn't attracted to you and she is out of your league, and it's all because of your mindset (to this point at least).

You lost before you even played, is it fun to live like that? I'd rather get my ass kicked in a game of anything, gaming chicks included, than not play and assume I would have lost. You need to be more positive. Approach her, do your best, and you will have succeeded. Even if she tells you to get lost, you'll come out better than you went in.
 
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If she rejects you then you know, but why reject yourself? Because you work closely with her you need to look for more signs of interest and do group hangouts. Most work flings end in disaster - but if you are making $5/hour then it doesn't matter!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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