Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hot Chick: Immediate Thaw?

thickandcreamy

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There's this girl I've known for five years in college. She's always been considered snobby and never has shown much interest in me (as far as I can tell). She never initiated conversation with me, talked to me, looked at me, anything.

However, I recently saw her again at a conference this past summer for an internship we were both interested in. She recognized me, walked over, gave me a long hug, and began chatting me up. She seemed very happy to see me. This confused me as I had never seen a hint of interest on her part for many years. Then, all of a sudden, she seems to be interested in getting to know me. I exited the conversation pretty quickly. She was known as one of the hot popular rich girls so I just found it strange with the sudden thaw and everything.

We have some mutual friends, but you know how friends get, very jealous and negative sometimes. I'm not sure if I could get the scoop or not. Anyone dealt with girls who all of a sudden seem interested out of the blue?

T 'n C
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wiesman44

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So she's being friendly when she see's u and all of a sudden u think she's interested ?

Take it u don't get many girls. Is this the first person that has been remotely interested in u in years ?

1) She's in her 'professional state'. Meaning she's working or attending a conference at work. She's not going to snub people like she does in college.
 

thickandcreamy

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You need some help with your mental health and self esteem, dude. You've gotten your panties in a bunch for no reason whatsoever.


Wiesman44 said:
So she's being friendly when she see's u and all of a sudden u think she's interested ?

Take it u don't get many girls. Is this the first person that has been remotely interested in u in years ?

1) She's in her 'professional state'. Meaning she's working or attending a conference at work. She's not going to snub people like she does in college.
 

Le Parisien

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Wiesman44 said:
So she's being friendly when she see's u and all of a sudden u think she's interested ?

Take it u don't get many girls. Is this the first person that has been remotely interested in u in years ?

1) She's in her 'professional state'. Meaning she's working or attending a conference at work. She's not going to snub people like she does in college.
Although these words can be seen as "harsh" but they speak the truth.

thickandcreamy:
You are a noob who seem to have very little social intelligence. (Just by checking out your mere 8 "contributions" to the site, people can already tell it lol:crackup:) So please refrain from insulting the other more experienced members when they are actually trying to help you. Otherwise you are not going anywhere...

Peace...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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