“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hot Chick: Immediate Thaw?

thickandcreamy

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There's this girl I've known for five years in college. She's always been considered snobby and never has shown much interest in me (as far as I can tell). She never initiated conversation with me, talked to me, looked at me, anything.

However, I recently saw her again at a conference this past summer for an internship we were both interested in. She recognized me, walked over, gave me a long hug, and began chatting me up. She seemed very happy to see me. This confused me as I had never seen a hint of interest on her part for many years. Then, all of a sudden, she seems to be interested in getting to know me. I exited the conversation pretty quickly. She was known as one of the hot popular rich girls so I just found it strange with the sudden thaw and everything.

We have some mutual friends, but you know how friends get, very jealous and negative sometimes. I'm not sure if I could get the scoop or not. Anyone dealt with girls who all of a sudden seem interested out of the blue?

T 'n C
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wiesman44

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So she's being friendly when she see's u and all of a sudden u think she's interested ?

Take it u don't get many girls. Is this the first person that has been remotely interested in u in years ?

1) She's in her 'professional state'. Meaning she's working or attending a conference at work. She's not going to snub people like she does in college.
 

thickandcreamy

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You need some help with your mental health and self esteem, dude. You've gotten your panties in a bunch for no reason whatsoever.


Wiesman44 said:
So she's being friendly when she see's u and all of a sudden u think she's interested ?

Take it u don't get many girls. Is this the first person that has been remotely interested in u in years ?

1) She's in her 'professional state'. Meaning she's working or attending a conference at work. She's not going to snub people like she does in college.
 

Le Parisien

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Wiesman44 said:
So she's being friendly when she see's u and all of a sudden u think she's interested ?

Take it u don't get many girls. Is this the first person that has been remotely interested in u in years ?

1) She's in her 'professional state'. Meaning she's working or attending a conference at work. She's not going to snub people like she does in college.
Although these words can be seen as "harsh" but they speak the truth.

thickandcreamy:
You are a noob who seem to have very little social intelligence. (Just by checking out your mere 8 "contributions" to the site, people can already tell it lol:crackup:) So please refrain from insulting the other more experienced members when they are actually trying to help you. Otherwise you are not going anywhere...

Peace...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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