"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hot Chick: Immediate Thaw?

thickandcreamy

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There's this girl I've known for five years in college. She's always been considered snobby and never has shown much interest in me (as far as I can tell). She never initiated conversation with me, talked to me, looked at me, anything.

However, I recently saw her again at a conference this past summer for an internship we were both interested in. She recognized me, walked over, gave me a long hug, and began chatting me up. She seemed very happy to see me. This confused me as I had never seen a hint of interest on her part for many years. Then, all of a sudden, she seems to be interested in getting to know me. I exited the conversation pretty quickly. She was known as one of the hot popular rich girls so I just found it strange with the sudden thaw and everything.

We have some mutual friends, but you know how friends get, very jealous and negative sometimes. I'm not sure if I could get the scoop or not. Anyone dealt with girls who all of a sudden seem interested out of the blue?

T 'n C
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wiesman44

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So she's being friendly when she see's u and all of a sudden u think she's interested ?

Take it u don't get many girls. Is this the first person that has been remotely interested in u in years ?

1) She's in her 'professional state'. Meaning she's working or attending a conference at work. She's not going to snub people like she does in college.
 

thickandcreamy

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You need some help with your mental health and self esteem, dude. You've gotten your panties in a bunch for no reason whatsoever.


Wiesman44 said:
So she's being friendly when she see's u and all of a sudden u think she's interested ?

Take it u don't get many girls. Is this the first person that has been remotely interested in u in years ?

1) She's in her 'professional state'. Meaning she's working or attending a conference at work. She's not going to snub people like she does in college.
 

Le Parisien

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Wiesman44 said:
So she's being friendly when she see's u and all of a sudden u think she's interested ?

Take it u don't get many girls. Is this the first person that has been remotely interested in u in years ?

1) She's in her 'professional state'. Meaning she's working or attending a conference at work. She's not going to snub people like she does in college.
Although these words can be seen as "harsh" but they speak the truth.

thickandcreamy:
You are a noob who seem to have very little social intelligence. (Just by checking out your mere 8 "contributions" to the site, people can already tell it lol:crackup:) So please refrain from insulting the other more experienced members when they are actually trying to help you. Otherwise you are not going anywhere...

Peace...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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