So this chick sends me a message on POF (I havent been on that site for months and I dont have a public picture.) She says I sound cool and we should talk (Im thinkin shes a heffer or a grenade.) I say sure shoot me your # and I'll text you sometime. She says lets exchange pics first. Ok, I sent her some pics but they werent the greatest and I guess she couldnt see my face so well. So she says thats a tease and sends me a nice shot of her posing in her bra with a big smiley face covering her head (supernice body tho). I send her a couple of pics i dug out of me and some chicks. she says I'm hot and likes my cowboy hat and sends me a new pic. Ok this chick is totally hot. I've never really talked with a chick on these sites so I'm not really sure where to go from here. Any suggestions?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Hot chick hit me up on POF. Now I feel AFC
- Thread starter Towerdog
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
the_stig
Senior Don Juan
Just a warning: POF = Flake city. Good luck tho!