So this chick sends me a message on POF (I havent been on that site for months and I dont have a public picture.) She says I sound cool and we should talk (Im thinkin shes a heffer or a grenade.) I say sure shoot me your # and I'll text you sometime. She says lets exchange pics first. Ok, I sent her some pics but they werent the greatest and I guess she couldnt see my face so well. So she says thats a tease and sends me a nice shot of her posing in her bra with a big smiley face covering her head (supernice body tho). I send her a couple of pics i dug out of me and some chicks. she says I'm hot and likes my cowboy hat and sends me a new pic. Ok this chick is totally hot. I've never really talked with a chick on these sites so I'm not really sure where to go from here. Any suggestions?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hot chick hit me up on POF. Now I feel AFC
- Thread starter Towerdog
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
the_stig
Senior Don Juan
Just a warning: POF = Flake city. Good luck tho!