So this chick sends me a message on POF (I havent been on that site for months and I dont have a public picture.) She says I sound cool and we should talk (Im thinkin shes a heffer or a grenade.) I say sure shoot me your # and I'll text you sometime. She says lets exchange pics first. Ok, I sent her some pics but they werent the greatest and I guess she couldnt see my face so well. So she says thats a tease and sends me a nice shot of her posing in her bra with a big smiley face covering her head (supernice body tho). I send her a couple of pics i dug out of me and some chicks. she says I'm hot and likes my cowboy hat and sends me a new pic. Ok this chick is totally hot. I've never really talked with a chick on these sites so I'm not really sure where to go from here. Any suggestions?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hot chick hit me up on POF. Now I feel AFC
- Thread starter Towerdog
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
the_stig
Senior Don Juan
Just a warning: POF = Flake city. Good luck tho!