"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hostage fantasy

Cinamon

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Has anyone ever dated a woman who said her most erotic fantasy was to be held hostage and raped. What did you make of that and did you follow through?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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prairiedog24

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Yes. Once. As in the dated part, not the follow through. =)

The hostage fantasy didn't weird me out much, except that it had happened to her. Serious.
 
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Cinamon said:
Has anyone ever dated a woman who said her most erotic fantasy was to be held hostage and raped. What did you make of that and did you follow through?
LoL Cinamon you have some wild fantasies you naughty girl. ;)
 

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I wouldn't go as far as judging a woman on her sexual fantasies, but legally this could be trouble. Personally abusive type of stuff isn't my cup of tea. I couldn't even pretend rape someone, would just be weird.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've always kept a pair of handcuffs and a whip behind my bed; Girls rarely deny it.
 

Cinamon

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Conquer said:
I wouldn't go as far as judging a woman on her sexual fantasies, but legally this could be trouble. Personally abusive type of stuff isn't my cup of tea. I couldn't even pretend rape someone, would just be weird.
Its not trouble legally. You set up a safe word and if you have to, you can get written consent before hand, and video it, to prove the person was a willing participant. You can work around the glitches.
 
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