"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Hostage fantasy

Thread starter Cinamon
Start date Jul 13, 2009

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Cinamon

Senior Don Juan

#1

Has anyone ever dated a woman who said her most erotic fantasy was to be held hostage and raped. What did you make of that and did you follow through?

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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prairiedog24

Senior Don Juan

#2

Yes. Once. As in the dated part, not the follow through. =)

The hostage fantasy didn't weird me out much, except that it had happened to her. Serious.

Last edited: Jul 13, 2009

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worship

Banned

#3

Cinamon said:
Has anyone ever dated a woman who said her most erotic fantasy was to be held hostage and raped. What did you make of that and did you follow through?

LoL Cinamon you have some wild fantasies you naughty girl.

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Conquer

Banned

#4

I wouldn't go as far as judging a woman on her sexual fantasies, but legally this could be trouble. Personally abusive type of stuff isn't my cup of tea. I couldn't even pretend rape someone, would just be weird.

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scrouds

Master Don Juan

#5

Sounds like fun. Add to that sex at knifepoint.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WC2

Master Don Juan

#6

I've always kept a pair of handcuffs and a whip behind my bed; Girls rarely deny it.

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Cinamon

Senior Don Juan

#7

Conquer said:
I wouldn't go as far as judging a woman on her sexual fantasies, but legally this could be trouble. Personally abusive type of stuff isn't my cup of tea. I couldn't even pretend rape someone, would just be weird.

Its not trouble legally. You set up a safe word and if you have to, you can get written consent before hand, and video it, to prove the person was a willing participant. You can work around the glitches.

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