"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Hostage fantasy

Thread starter Cinamon
Start date Jul 13, 2009

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Cinamon

Senior Don Juan

#1

Has anyone ever dated a woman who said her most erotic fantasy was to be held hostage and raped. What did you make of that and did you follow through?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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prairiedog24

Senior Don Juan

#2

Yes. Once. As in the dated part, not the follow through. =)

The hostage fantasy didn't weird me out much, except that it had happened to her. Serious.

Last edited: Jul 13, 2009

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worship

Banned

#3

Cinamon said:
Has anyone ever dated a woman who said her most erotic fantasy was to be held hostage and raped. What did you make of that and did you follow through?

LoL Cinamon you have some wild fantasies you naughty girl.

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Conquer

Banned

#4

I wouldn't go as far as judging a woman on her sexual fantasies, but legally this could be trouble. Personally abusive type of stuff isn't my cup of tea. I couldn't even pretend rape someone, would just be weird.

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scrouds

Master Don Juan

#5

Sounds like fun. Add to that sex at knifepoint.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WC2

Master Don Juan

#6

I've always kept a pair of handcuffs and a whip behind my bed; Girls rarely deny it.

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Cinamon

Senior Don Juan

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Conquer said:
I wouldn't go as far as judging a woman on her sexual fantasies, but legally this could be trouble. Personally abusive type of stuff isn't my cup of tea. I couldn't even pretend rape someone, would just be weird.

Its not trouble legally. You set up a safe word and if you have to, you can get written consent before hand, and video it, to prove the person was a willing participant. You can work around the glitches.

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