Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bunsen11

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Hey every body, Ive been reading the Don Juan bible for weeks now and have applied it to my everyday life over and over.
Last night a girl Ive known since the starting of junior high, we got drunk with friends and she was all over me. I could see the green light so I started mad kino and being ****y n funny. We we went for a walk and we started to mack for 10 mins. We made out a couple more times that night. It was a perfect night.

I have had on and off feelings for her and she the same since grade 7. And I'm just wondering what i should do know? Shes online right now but I'm thinking of playing it cool letting her talk first and seeming busy.
Im afraid this will scare her off or lower her drive to get me.
Or should I be funny and accuse her of taking advantage of me lol.
Im looking for her as bang buddy (she recccomended when we were drunk) or a relationship last resort.
What would all y'all do in this situation?
thanks to everyone
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bunsen11

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Aldo when she or her friend asks if I like her what do I say?
 

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To your second post, don't give them a yes or no answer. Let her chase you a bit, be a mystery. You want to hint interest, but don't hint disinterest EVER.
 

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Originally posted by Bunsen11
Aldo when she or her friend asks if I like her what do I say?
If her friend asks say something like "why dont you have her come and ask me?"

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Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 

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Bang buddy? Don't you think that maybe she deserved a bit more respect? That may score you big points as a gent. ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by danrizzy
Bang buddy? Don't you think that maybe she deserved a bit more respect? That may score you big points as a gent. ;)
or we could enter the real world.

She suggested it, so she was likely considering such a relationship for a while. Invite her over for a movie and go from there.
 

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Thanks guys for all the advice! My friend has his house to himself so we are gonna all go over, no drinking but Im just gonna act cool and be like it happens all the time and just read her, a lil kino The Usual, Thanks bros
 
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