"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey every body, Ive been reading the Don Juan bible for weeks now and have applied it to my everyday life over and over.
Last night a girl Ive known since the starting of junior high, we got drunk with friends and she was all over me. I could see the green light so I started mad kino and being ****y n funny. We we went for a walk and we started to mack for 10 mins. We made out a couple more times that night. It was a perfect night.

I have had on and off feelings for her and she the same since grade 7. And I'm just wondering what i should do know? Shes online right now but I'm thinking of playing it cool letting her talk first and seeming busy.
Im afraid this will scare her off or lower her drive to get me.
Or should I be funny and accuse her of taking advantage of me lol.
Im looking for her as bang buddy (she recccomended when we were drunk) or a relationship last resort.
What would all y'all do in this situation?
thanks to everyone
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aldo when she or her friend asks if I like her what do I say?
 
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To your second post, don't give them a yes or no answer. Let her chase you a bit, be a mystery. You want to hint interest, but don't hint disinterest EVER.
 
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Originally posted by Bunsen11
Aldo when she or her friend asks if I like her what do I say?
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If her friend asks say something like "why dont you have her come and ask me?"

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Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 
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Bang buddy? Don't you think that maybe she deserved a bit more respect? That may score you big points as a gent. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bang buddy? Don't you think that maybe she deserved a bit more respect? That may score you big points as a gent. ;)
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or we could enter the real world.

She suggested it, so she was likely considering such a relationship for a while. Invite her over for a movie and go from there.
 
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Thanks guys for all the advice! My friend has his house to himself so we are gonna all go over, no drinking but Im just gonna act cool and be like it happens all the time and just read her, a lil kino The Usual, Thanks bros
 
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