"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bunsen11

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Hey every body, Ive been reading the Don Juan bible for weeks now and have applied it to my everyday life over and over.
Last night a girl Ive known since the starting of junior high, we got drunk with friends and she was all over me. I could see the green light so I started mad kino and being ****y n funny. We we went for a walk and we started to mack for 10 mins. We made out a couple more times that night. It was a perfect night.

I have had on and off feelings for her and she the same since grade 7. And I'm just wondering what i should do know? Shes online right now but I'm thinking of playing it cool letting her talk first and seeming busy.
Im afraid this will scare her off or lower her drive to get me.
Or should I be funny and accuse her of taking advantage of me lol.
Im looking for her as bang buddy (she recccomended when we were drunk) or a relationship last resort.
What would all y'all do in this situation?
thanks to everyone
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bunsen11

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Aldo when she or her friend asks if I like her what do I say?
 

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To your second post, don't give them a yes or no answer. Let her chase you a bit, be a mystery. You want to hint interest, but don't hint disinterest EVER.
 

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Originally posted by Bunsen11
Aldo when she or her friend asks if I like her what do I say?
If her friend asks say something like "why dont you have her come and ask me?"

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Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 

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Bang buddy? Don't you think that maybe she deserved a bit more respect? That may score you big points as a gent. ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by danrizzy
Bang buddy? Don't you think that maybe she deserved a bit more respect? That may score you big points as a gent. ;)
or we could enter the real world.

She suggested it, so she was likely considering such a relationship for a while. Invite her over for a movie and go from there.
 

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Thanks guys for all the advice! My friend has his house to himself so we are gonna all go over, no drinking but Im just gonna act cool and be like it happens all the time and just read her, a lil kino The Usual, Thanks bros
 
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