"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey every body, Ive been reading the Don Juan bible for weeks now and have applied it to my everyday life over and over.
Last night a girl Ive known since the starting of junior high, we got drunk with friends and she was all over me. I could see the green light so I started mad kino and being ****y n funny. We we went for a walk and we started to mack for 10 mins. We made out a couple more times that night. It was a perfect night.

I have had on and off feelings for her and she the same since grade 7. And I'm just wondering what i should do know? Shes online right now but I'm thinking of playing it cool letting her talk first and seeming busy.
Im afraid this will scare her off or lower her drive to get me.
Or should I be funny and accuse her of taking advantage of me lol.
Im looking for her as bang buddy (she recccomended when we were drunk) or a relationship last resort.
What would all y'all do in this situation?
thanks to everyone
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aldo when she or her friend asks if I like her what do I say?
 
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To your second post, don't give them a yes or no answer. Let her chase you a bit, be a mystery. You want to hint interest, but don't hint disinterest EVER.
 
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Originally posted by Bunsen11
Aldo when she or her friend asks if I like her what do I say?
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If her friend asks say something like "why dont you have her come and ask me?"

- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 
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Bang buddy? Don't you think that maybe she deserved a bit more respect? That may score you big points as a gent. ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by danrizzy
Bang buddy? Don't you think that maybe she deserved a bit more respect? That may score you big points as a gent. ;)
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or we could enter the real world.

She suggested it, so she was likely considering such a relationship for a while. Invite her over for a movie and go from there.
 
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Thanks guys for all the advice! My friend has his house to himself so we are gonna all go over, no drinking but Im just gonna act cool and be like it happens all the time and just read her, a lil kino The Usual, Thanks bros
 
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