"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hook-Up Internet Sites

Schwank

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I saw this Site called Red Hot Pie that's aimed at meeting people purely for sex.

I scanned some girls in my local area and quite a few were hot as fvck. Is it some sort of scam? Do girls that look so good need to use the Net to find guys to fvck? Why would they when they can go to a club on a weekend and pretty much choose any guy in the club to take home and fvck?

Also, has anyone had success with these pick-up Sites?

The Site requires a small membership fee, but I'm not sure if it's the way to go to get casual sex.

Any advice?

Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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Any site that charges a fee has an incentive to make fake profiles. Adultfriendfinder used to be notorious about it. Guys who had a membership about to expire would suddenly get messages from attractive local "girls" who were more likely to be dudes sitting in an Internet cafe in Eastern Europe, getting paid for the impersonation.

A friend of mine has a hot girlfriend who did some sketchy "modeling" in NYC when she was in her teens, about ten years ago. To this day, her old pictures still sometimes pop up as ads for dating sites, saying that she is on the site and wanting to chat with you right now.

Just use craigslist if you want a hookup site. At least it's free.
 

Mike32ct

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Bible_Belt said:
Any site that charges a fee has an incentive to make fake profiles. Adultfriendfinder used to be notorious about it. Guys who had a membership about to expire would suddenly get messages from attractive local "girls" who were more likely to be dudes sitting in an Internet cafe in Eastern Europe, getting paid for the impersonation.

A friend of mine has a hot girlfriend who did some sketchy "modeling" in NYC when she was in her teens, about ten years ago. To this day, her old pictures still sometimes pop up as ads for dating sites, saying that she is on the site and wanting to chat with you right now.

Just use craigslist if you want a hookup site. At least it's free.
^This.

If it looks too good to be true, it probably is. Why would any hot chick have to or want to pay to place an ad for a F-buddy?
 

Borknagar

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Yah those online hook up sites are a lot like the bull**** PUA bootcamps that are around by monopolizing on the fact getting women and sex is generally much harder for men.
 

gaspipe

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Most if not all the hot girls there are fakes or covert prostitutes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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