"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hook-Up Internet Sites

Schwank

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I saw this Site called Red Hot Pie that's aimed at meeting people purely for sex.

I scanned some girls in my local area and quite a few were hot as fvck. Is it some sort of scam? Do girls that look so good need to use the Net to find guys to fvck? Why would they when they can go to a club on a weekend and pretty much choose any guy in the club to take home and fvck?

Also, has anyone had success with these pick-up Sites?

The Site requires a small membership fee, but I'm not sure if it's the way to go to get casual sex.

Any advice?

Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bible_Belt

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Any site that charges a fee has an incentive to make fake profiles. Adultfriendfinder used to be notorious about it. Guys who had a membership about to expire would suddenly get messages from attractive local "girls" who were more likely to be dudes sitting in an Internet cafe in Eastern Europe, getting paid for the impersonation.

A friend of mine has a hot girlfriend who did some sketchy "modeling" in NYC when she was in her teens, about ten years ago. To this day, her old pictures still sometimes pop up as ads for dating sites, saying that she is on the site and wanting to chat with you right now.

Just use craigslist if you want a hookup site. At least it's free.
 

Mike32ct

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Bible_Belt said:
Any site that charges a fee has an incentive to make fake profiles. Adultfriendfinder used to be notorious about it. Guys who had a membership about to expire would suddenly get messages from attractive local "girls" who were more likely to be dudes sitting in an Internet cafe in Eastern Europe, getting paid for the impersonation.

A friend of mine has a hot girlfriend who did some sketchy "modeling" in NYC when she was in her teens, about ten years ago. To this day, her old pictures still sometimes pop up as ads for dating sites, saying that she is on the site and wanting to chat with you right now.

Just use craigslist if you want a hookup site. At least it's free.
^This.

If it looks too good to be true, it probably is. Why would any hot chick have to or want to pay to place an ad for a F-buddy?
 

Borknagar

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Yah those online hook up sites are a lot like the bull**** PUA bootcamps that are around by monopolizing on the fact getting women and sex is generally much harder for men.
 

gaspipe

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Most if not all the hot girls there are fakes or covert prostitutes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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