"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hook-Up Internet Sites

Schwank

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I saw this Site called Red Hot Pie that's aimed at meeting people purely for sex.

I scanned some girls in my local area and quite a few were hot as fvck. Is it some sort of scam? Do girls that look so good need to use the Net to find guys to fvck? Why would they when they can go to a club on a weekend and pretty much choose any guy in the club to take home and fvck?

Also, has anyone had success with these pick-up Sites?

The Site requires a small membership fee, but I'm not sure if it's the way to go to get casual sex.

Any advice?

Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bible_Belt

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Any site that charges a fee has an incentive to make fake profiles. Adultfriendfinder used to be notorious about it. Guys who had a membership about to expire would suddenly get messages from attractive local "girls" who were more likely to be dudes sitting in an Internet cafe in Eastern Europe, getting paid for the impersonation.

A friend of mine has a hot girlfriend who did some sketchy "modeling" in NYC when she was in her teens, about ten years ago. To this day, her old pictures still sometimes pop up as ads for dating sites, saying that she is on the site and wanting to chat with you right now.

Just use craigslist if you want a hookup site. At least it's free.
 

Mike32ct

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Bible_Belt said:
Any site that charges a fee has an incentive to make fake profiles. Adultfriendfinder used to be notorious about it. Guys who had a membership about to expire would suddenly get messages from attractive local "girls" who were more likely to be dudes sitting in an Internet cafe in Eastern Europe, getting paid for the impersonation.

A friend of mine has a hot girlfriend who did some sketchy "modeling" in NYC when she was in her teens, about ten years ago. To this day, her old pictures still sometimes pop up as ads for dating sites, saying that she is on the site and wanting to chat with you right now.

Just use craigslist if you want a hookup site. At least it's free.
^This.

If it looks too good to be true, it probably is. Why would any hot chick have to or want to pay to place an ad for a F-buddy?
 

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Yah those online hook up sites are a lot like the bull**** PUA bootcamps that are around by monopolizing on the fact getting women and sex is generally much harder for men.
 

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Most if not all the hot girls there are fakes or covert prostitutes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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