"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Schwank

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I saw this Site called Red Hot Pie that's aimed at meeting people purely for sex.

I scanned some girls in my local area and quite a few were hot as fvck. Is it some sort of scam? Do girls that look so good need to use the Net to find guys to fvck? Why would they when they can go to a club on a weekend and pretty much choose any guy in the club to take home and fvck?

Also, has anyone had success with these pick-up Sites?

The Site requires a small membership fee, but I'm not sure if it's the way to go to get casual sex.

Any advice?

Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt

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Any site that charges a fee has an incentive to make fake profiles. Adultfriendfinder used to be notorious about it. Guys who had a membership about to expire would suddenly get messages from attractive local "girls" who were more likely to be dudes sitting in an Internet cafe in Eastern Europe, getting paid for the impersonation.

A friend of mine has a hot girlfriend who did some sketchy "modeling" in NYC when she was in her teens, about ten years ago. To this day, her old pictures still sometimes pop up as ads for dating sites, saying that she is on the site and wanting to chat with you right now.

Just use craigslist if you want a hookup site. At least it's free.
 

Mike32ct

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Bible_Belt said:
Any site that charges a fee has an incentive to make fake profiles. Adultfriendfinder used to be notorious about it. Guys who had a membership about to expire would suddenly get messages from attractive local "girls" who were more likely to be dudes sitting in an Internet cafe in Eastern Europe, getting paid for the impersonation.

A friend of mine has a hot girlfriend who did some sketchy "modeling" in NYC when she was in her teens, about ten years ago. To this day, her old pictures still sometimes pop up as ads for dating sites, saying that she is on the site and wanting to chat with you right now.

Just use craigslist if you want a hookup site. At least it's free.
^This.

If it looks too good to be true, it probably is. Why would any hot chick have to or want to pay to place an ad for a F-buddy?
 

Borknagar

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Yah those online hook up sites are a lot like the bull**** PUA bootcamps that are around by monopolizing on the fact getting women and sex is generally much harder for men.
 

gaspipe

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Most if not all the hot girls there are fakes or covert prostitutes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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