Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
I would like to know how many of you would actually consider making a girl you hook up with casually a girlfriend?? Does this break some sort of rule, and is the even a consideration through your sexcapades......Do tell.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hook Up Buddy to Girlfriend...Is that possible???
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
When you are in controll and you are happy and you like yourself, you can do whatever you want and on your terms. If you like the girl, and you want something more, you take her in and be happy; looking for advice on following any particular set of rules on this type of dynamic is a form of approval seeking.
In short, it depends on the context in which you are functioning.
In short, it depends on the context in which you are functioning.
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
Good answer.....
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Why would I want to ? If she's giving it up, but I don't have to "date" her - why would I want to screw up a perfect arrangement ?
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
That makes perfect sense. I was thinking the same thing......
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Are you posting this because you'd like to upgrade a guy from a f*ckbuddy to a boyfriend ? If that's the case my advice is stop giving it up and you'll see how much he really cares about youOriginally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
That makes perfect sense. I was thinking the same thing......
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
Exactly!!!! We have been messing around for a year and a half now and we are both infatuated with each other and we have already discussed this. I want more than fvckbuddies. I am just wondering if a guy can ever see a fvck buddy in a different way.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Well, stop sleeping with him and you will have your answer