Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
I would like to know how many of you would actually consider making a girl you hook up with casually a girlfriend?? Does this break some sort of rule, and is the even a consideration through your sexcapades......Do tell.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hook Up Buddy to Girlfriend...Is that possible???
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
When you are in controll and you are happy and you like yourself, you can do whatever you want and on your terms. If you like the girl, and you want something more, you take her in and be happy; looking for advice on following any particular set of rules on this type of dynamic is a form of approval seeking.
In short, it depends on the context in which you are functioning.
In short, it depends on the context in which you are functioning.
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
Good answer.....
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Why would I want to ? If she's giving it up, but I don't have to "date" her - why would I want to screw up a perfect arrangement ?
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
That makes perfect sense. I was thinking the same thing......
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Are you posting this because you'd like to upgrade a guy from a f*ckbuddy to a boyfriend ? If that's the case my advice is stop giving it up and you'll see how much he really cares about youOriginally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
That makes perfect sense. I was thinking the same thing......
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
Exactly!!!! We have been messing around for a year and a half now and we are both infatuated with each other and we have already discussed this. I want more than fvckbuddies. I am just wondering if a guy can ever see a fvck buddy in a different way.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Well, stop sleeping with him and you will have your answer