Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
I would like to know how many of you would actually consider making a girl you hook up with casually a girlfriend?? Does this break some sort of rule, and is the even a consideration through your sexcapades......Do tell.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Hook Up Buddy to Girlfriend...Is that possible???
- Thread starter Jus_LikeCandy
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
When you are in controll and you are happy and you like yourself, you can do whatever you want and on your terms. If you like the girl, and you want something more, you take her in and be happy; looking for advice on following any particular set of rules on this type of dynamic is a form of approval seeking.
In short, it depends on the context in which you are functioning.
In short, it depends on the context in which you are functioning.
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
Good answer.....
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Why would I want to ? If she's giving it up, but I don't have to "date" her - why would I want to screw up a perfect arrangement ?
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
That makes perfect sense. I was thinking the same thing......
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Are you posting this because you'd like to upgrade a guy from a f*ckbuddy to a boyfriend ? If that's the case my advice is stop giving it up and you'll see how much he really cares about youOriginally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
That makes perfect sense. I was thinking the same thing......
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
Exactly!!!! We have been messing around for a year and a half now and we are both infatuated with each other and we have already discussed this. I want more than fvckbuddies. I am just wondering if a guy can ever see a fvck buddy in a different way.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Well, stop sleeping with him and you will have your answer