Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
I would like to know how many of you would actually consider making a girl you hook up with casually a girlfriend?? Does this break some sort of rule, and is the even a consideration through your sexcapades......Do tell.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hook Up Buddy to Girlfriend...Is that possible???
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
When you are in controll and you are happy and you like yourself, you can do whatever you want and on your terms. If you like the girl, and you want something more, you take her in and be happy; looking for advice on following any particular set of rules on this type of dynamic is a form of approval seeking.
In short, it depends on the context in which you are functioning.
In short, it depends on the context in which you are functioning.
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
Good answer.....
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Why would I want to ? If she's giving it up, but I don't have to "date" her - why would I want to screw up a perfect arrangement ?
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
That makes perfect sense. I was thinking the same thing......
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Are you posting this because you'd like to upgrade a guy from a f*ckbuddy to a boyfriend ? If that's the case my advice is stop giving it up and you'll see how much he really cares about youOriginally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
That makes perfect sense. I was thinking the same thing......
Jus_LikeCandy
Banned
Exactly!!!! We have been messing around for a year and a half now and we are both infatuated with each other and we have already discussed this. I want more than fvckbuddies. I am just wondering if a guy can ever see a fvck buddy in a different way.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
Well, stop sleeping with him and you will have your answer