PuertoRican_Lover
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Say no to Hos and Ho-mos!!!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Blue Phoenix
Master Don Juan
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Interesting
Lo Hung Wang said:
"Another cool thing about gay bars is that you experience what it's like to be female and to be hit on. To be the "object of desire" instead of the pursuer. I know why girls act the way they do - cuz they know guys are lined up to get into their pants."
Once I was in college and a guy I didnt know started to talk to me.
Like this:
Hey, what time is it?
What course do you do?
Where do you live?
Then I said to myself "is this guy hitting on me? WTF?" I sensed he was looking for something. Lucky me that my friend appeared and we left the "strange guy".
Two years later I went to a party and a gay man said to a female "friend" I was with "What a pity he's not gay!!!"
It was really strange! lol. So I ask, what could that mean? If a gay guy hits on you, it's because they think you're gay?
WHat do you think?
Lo Hung Wang said:
"Another cool thing about gay bars is that you experience what it's like to be female and to be hit on. To be the "object of desire" instead of the pursuer. I know why girls act the way they do - cuz they know guys are lined up to get into their pants."
Once I was in college and a guy I didnt know started to talk to me.
Like this:
Hey, what time is it?
What course do you do?
Where do you live?
Then I said to myself "is this guy hitting on me? WTF?" I sensed he was looking for something. Lucky me that my friend appeared and we left the "strange guy".
Two years later I went to a party and a gay man said to a female "friend" I was with "What a pity he's not gay!!!"
It was really strange! lol. So I ask, what could that mean? If a gay guy hits on you, it's because they think you're gay?
WHat do you think?
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PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Re: Interesting
You have become the girl in his sick perverted mind!!
Sorry to be so blunt but he wants to get into your @ss and sees you as a real man sees a woman whom he is ready to devour!!!
You have become the girl in his sick perverted mind!!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Don Juan
I've been hit on (99% sre of it) by guys a couple times as well as girls. The thing is, altho it might be flatering to know that they're intrested in you, it made me feel cheap
. It might be seen as sort of a double standard, but when I girl dose it it just makes u feel like a stud . But with a guy, I don't know its just diffrent, perhaps If I was into that stuff, then I might feel diffrently. From observation tho I realized that guys are alot more agressive which makes the person feel alot more invaded and unwilling to talk to the other party. If they were more smoothe then It might be a little more easy to talk to them so In light of that I took a cue on how women persue men and have become a little less agressive.
. It might be seen as sort of a double standard, but when I girl dose it it just makes u feel like a stud . But with a guy, I don't know its just diffrent, perhaps If I was into that stuff, then I might feel diffrently. From observation tho I realized that guys are alot more agressive which makes the person feel alot more invaded and unwilling to talk to the other party. If they were more smoothe then It might be a little more easy to talk to them so In light of that I took a cue on how women persue men and have become a little less agressive.- Status