"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Holy God - I'm a shallow fake

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evolvingnerd

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i just read this post

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=23151

and i realised i've been so busy working on my ******d projections without doing anything for my inner self. of course seen as i type this post on a sat night :rolleyes:

to the actual DJs out there, and those on the actual right path, can u plz suggest some ideas, some things for me to actually do, as opposed to sitting on my ass on the computer all day long

i'm a uni student (doing law and needing a lot of study), living at home, and somewhat pov (but in publiic i dont look it lol, just living in a small home)

i'm first gonna find myself an actual steady part-time job

ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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go out and jog, chill out in places where there's people.
sit on a bench in the park, in the mall or whatever. by the way what is POV?
 
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I think it means he's short on cash.

Go sign up for a gym, it will make you feel worlds better.
 
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Gym definatelly does help with boosting confidence. Another thing is, if you live on campus, instead of sitting in front of PC all the time ask your friends what they're up to. Usually at least some of them will be doing something other than a lan party, and you can hang out with them. Hanging out with a lot of people often helps a lot with the inner self too. Even if you're not on campus you can still call your friends cell phone and ask them if they're up to anything.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i don't live on campus and i do have a gym membership
my problem is i'm winding up with too much time on my bloody hands, which is why i'm always on the computer
do any other DJs in a similar situation do this kinda stuff?
what do you guys do in ur free time?
 
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